Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to crank up the heat in your love life—whether you’re blissfully coupled or single and ready to mingle.
This February 14th, turn the typical dinner-and-roses routine into something spicy, unexpected, and tantalizing. From sizzling sexts to playful new toys, here’s how to have a Sexy Valentine’s Day, no matter your relationship status.
1. Give a Gift (or Two)
No matter your relationship status, everyone should be treated to a gift this Valentine’s Day—whether you treat yourself or someone else. If you’re single, why not indulge in some sexy underwear or a fun toy like the Keon + FeelStar combo?
You can sync the Keon to the content of your favorite Feelstar and enjoy some immersive solo play. Don’t forget that self-love is the most important love of all!
If you’re in a relationship, why not spoil your other half this Valentine’s? Make them a sexy Valentine’s Day countdown calendar of kinky goodies: lingerie, lube, accessories for their favorite toys, or maybe even a toy for you both to enjoy, like the Spot– a wearable egg vibrator that you can control on your phone. Spot comes with whisper-quiet vibes so you can indulge in some public play this Valentine’s Day.
You can also spice up your situationship with the gift of pleasure this Valentine’s Day!
If clitoral stimulation is your go-to, why not treat yourself to a wand vibrator like ProWand? You can use it with your lover, and bring it home with you after— a little selfishness never hurt anyone!
2. Playful Party Time
Who says Valentine’s has to be a quiet candlelit affair? Your relationship status shouldn’t stop you from partying it up for Valentine’s Day.
If you’re single, Valentine’s is an excellent opportunity to paint the town red, and meet some other singles– maybe even bring one of them home for a romantic rendezvous…
Whether you’re in a secure couple or a playful relationship, consider adding an extra layer of excitement by exploring the world of swingers and sex parties.
These events can provide a safe, consensual environment to spice things up together. Remember, communication and mutual agreement are key when you step into the world of swinging.
Whether you’re single, or coupled up (however that looks), a loud party environment can be an ideal spot to experiment with some well-hidden toys.
Spot by Kiiroo is a wearable vibrator that has whisper-quiet vibes and an ergonomic design that ensures it stays in place. Spot is app-controlled and sound-responsive, so you can have it respond to the rhythm of the dancefloor, or let your partner control the vibes from their phone.
You can party at home too! Play some Nova Luxx, and have some fun with the elite combo of your favorite AI music sensation and some sound-responsive sex toys like Spot or ProWand.
3. Explore Your Boundaries
What better time to explore your sexual boundaries than the most romantic day of the year?
Whether you’re single this Valentine’s Day, or looking to experiment with your lover– Valentine’s is the perfect time to dim the lights, put on some sexy music, and explore your body and sexual desires.
Using sex toys is an excellent way to explore your boundaries as a single person. Toys like the Pearl3 vibrator that targets your G-spot, and can be used to explore other parts of your body too.
The Lumen vibrating butt plug is an excellent toy to experiment with anal play if it’s something you haven’t tried before. You buy these together with the Endless Fantasies Bundle and bag yourself a sexy lil’ discount.
There are plenty of ways for lovers to explore their fantasies. Start small with a “yes-no-maybe” list of sexual desires and see where your boundaries overlap. Later, explore your mutual desires!
Maybe you want to experiment with public play or have another person join you in the bedroom. The possibilities are endless for couples who explore with an open mind.
Even long-distance lovers can keep that spark alive with interactive toys that bridge any distance.
And since sex doesn’t discriminate by anatomy, Kiiroo’s lineup of innovative sex toys for couples ensures everyone can stay connected and play with each other—no matter where you are. Be sure to explore their range and heat things up together!
4. Write Your Fantasies
Getting all Shakespearean about Valentine’s might not seem too sexy at first glance, but writing is an excellent way to express your desire if you’re into it.
If you’re single, why not write a steamy short story to channel your romantic energy, or even manifest your “dream lover” into existence this very V-day?
Couples can pen passionate love letters to share how you lust for your partner. Writing about what turns you on the most, what you’d like to try, and where you’d like to try it is a great way to loop your partner in on some desires you might be too shy to communicate verbally.
Situationships can drop a tantalizing note for their lover to find and spark a surprise encounter.
If you’re feeling adventurous, why not get started early with a “sex fantasy jar” that you both pop your wildest desires into and draw a random one for a sexy Valentine’s evening together?
5. Edge Your Way to Ecstasy
Edging involves bringing yourself, or your lover, to the brink of climax and then holding off. It can lead to some pretty explosive orgasms, so why not practice the art of edging to create a sexy Valentine’s Day?
Singles can push the meaning of pleasure to the max with high-quality toys that get you to the edge quickly. ProWand is all about taking you to the edge with mind-blowing clitoral vibes.
Meanwhile, Titan turns every stroke into an immersive fantasy with vibrations you won’t forget. You can sync both of these toys up to your favorite porn scenes with the FeelConnect app to push your limits.
If you want to explore edging with your lover, toys bring an additional level of excitement into your edging experience.
Indulge in some couples sex toys you know they’ll enjoy and tease them with your new toys, just be careful not to push them over the edge, that’s the fun part!
Even long-distance lovers can experiment with edging using the Keon—an interactive masturbator that lets you control every stroke remotely.
You can even pair it with a compatible toy like the Pearl3, and use the FeelConnect app to control each other’s toys, so you can ride the edge together.
6. Spice It Up With Sexting
Sexting isn’t just for late-night flirtations—it’s also a great way to build anticipation before the main event. Couples can spend the day sending teasing messages to each other, dropping hints about what’s to come.
Singles can hop on a dating app and see who’s up for some consensual, steamy conversation.
And for those in situationships, a well-placed “What would you do if I were there right now?” text can turn a casual connection into a Valentine’s Day rendezvous. Think of it as foreplay you can do from anywhere.
7. Play Some Games
There’s no better way to make a sexy Valentine’s Day than ramping up the heat with some playful fun!
If you’re single, a night of strip poker or a flirty game night with friends can transform Valentine’s into a night you’ll never forget. You can even fly solo and use the Kiiroo Control to play some sexy interactive games with your favorite Kiiroo toy as the controller.
If you’ve got a lover to play some games with, why not spice things up with a game of Twister to get up close and personal, or a steamy truth-or-dare session?
You’ll find that playful tension can quickly lead to sexual tension, and there’s no better way to connect with your lover than a fun game.
You can also explore a different kind of fun to make your V-day even sexier: role play! Role play is an excellent way to bring a new sense of excitement into your relationship.
Dress up as your partner’s wildest dreams or create a sexy scenario and make your fantasies come to life.
8. Slow It Down
After a long work week, you mightn’t want to spend a lot of energy and money on your Valentine's celebrations.
Not every Valentine’s needs to be wildly romantic, but you can still have a sexy Valentine’s Day by slowing it down. Singles can treat themselves to a delicious take-out and draw a luxurious hot bath with some candles to emphasize the LOVE in self-love.
Those in romantic couples and situationships can make a slow, but sexy, Valentine’s Day just as intimate by lighting some candles, popping on some Marvin Gaye, and massaging one another.
Incorporate some scented massage oils to elevate the experience, and don’t be afraid to let your hands explore. This is a great way to build sexual tension and draw out the anticipation of what’s to come.
Valentine’s Day isn’t just for soulmates, it’s a day to express and receive love— whatever that may look like. With a little time and a lot of lust, it’s easy to make this February 14th a sexy Valentine’s Day.
Explore your boundaries, tease yourself or your lover, and let your imagination run wild. Whatever your relationship status, one thing’s for sure: This Valentine’s Day will be one for the books.
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Written by
Ellie White
