Tips for Eating Pussy Like A Pro
There’s a lot of pressure on partners to be cunnilingus masters. But when it comes to actually learning about eating pussy, there’s not much support out there. If you’re a woman with a female partner, you may have a better understanding of what cunnilingus feels like.
But if you’re a man, you may not know everything. While eating pussy is about giving your female partner attention, we’re going to give you helpful tips to make sure you blow her mind.
And don’t forget, eating pussy isn’t something you’re going to master overnight. It takes practice and the right communication with your partner. So, go easy on yourself. Practice makes perfect.
Warm things up
Unlike men, women usually need more time to warm up. And to warm up your female partner, you need to focus on more than just the clitoris. Yes, it’s an important part, and you’ll get to it in a bit. But before even performing oral sex, you want to warm her up.
The big mistake men make is by jumping right to the clitoris. Instead, work your way down. Start with kissing, rubbing, or massaging her erogenous zones, making out.
Invest in foreplay because it’s going to really pay off when it comes to clitoral stimulation. After working your way down south, you can start clitoral stimulation by rubbing the clitoris.
Different strokes for different folks
No one who performs cunnilingus wants to hear this, but when it comes to eating pussy, every woman is different. Now, you may be thinking this will make performing oral sex that much harder for you, but don’t freak out just yet. If you stick to the basics, you can’t go wrong.
Eating pussy like a pro isn’t about doing crazy techniques. If you master the basics, she’ll be orgasming in no time. So, don’t overwhelm yourself; stick to the basics.
What are the basics? You can start by fingering your female partner, sliding in the tongue. Most women enjoy being licked in an “up and down” motion. Another move is making a “circular” motion with your tongue around the clitoris.
You can also make a “side-by-side” motion. You’ll have to play around with these tongue motions, finding which ones hit the spot. It could be just one or a combination of motions.
While eating pussy, insert one or two fingers into the vagina (or anus, if she wants), making a “come-hither” movement. During this, you’ll want to remember to pay attention to her reaction as that will give you clues to what she prefers.
Actions speak louder than words
Remember when I said different strokes for different folks? This is what I’m talking about. With your last partner, you were a pro when it came to eating pussy. But with your new partner, you’ll need to learn what she enjoys.
Of course, you can always ask her—in a sexy way, though. Let’s not make this sound like an interview. But another way to tweak your oral sex game is by listening to the sounds and body movements she makes.
If she’s completely silent and you’re tempted to check her pulse, that’s a good sign she’s not enjoying it. In that case, switch things up. But if she’s moaning pleasurably and her body twitches, you’re on the right path.
Get into the right oral sex position
There’s no hiding it; some positions are simply better to receive oral sex than others. You want to make sure the sex position you’re in provides you with the right access.
Performing oral sex from behind is not only highly pleasurable, but it’s hot for both partners. You can have her lying on her back on the bed, with her legs bent open for full access. Or while you’re on your knees, your partner can be standing to receive oral sex.
Hit the big O again...and again
For men, whether it’s sex or blow jobs, they usually need a break after ejaculating. But for women, it’s a bit different. If she orgasms once, you don’t need to stop.
Oh no, the vagina is not like the penis in any way. A single orgasm doesn’t mean the fun is over. Many women are capable of orgasming multiple times. Though the thought may arouse you, you’re probably wondering if you’re going to be able to last.
Will your tongue be tired? I’m not going to lie, it probably will be. But you take a break by continuing to finger her until your jaw loosens up. Of course, you can work your way up to this stage.
Eating pussy like a pro is something that you can achieve. But remember, every woman is different, and this isn’t going to happen overnight. So be patient with yourself.
Use these tips to improve your cunnilingus, and if you’re not sure she’s enjoying it, you can always ask her what she prefers. Another option would be to try mutual masturbation out so you can see what she likes.
WRITTEN BY
Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.
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