Tis’ the season to be naughty, fa-la-la-la-la—okay, that’s not exactly how the song goes, but honestly, maybe it’s time for a change.
When’s the next time you’ll have time off with your partner to be completely relaxed at home?
Sure, the holiday season comes with family dinners and gift-giving, but don’t forget there are a lot of nights by the fire (and things always get spicy).
It’s truly the best time to rediscover and reconnect with your partner by adding a few naughty things to your repertoire. Maybe you’re looking to spice things up or make this season one to remember.
Whatever the reason, incorporating sex toys into your holiday nights can be an adventurous way to build passion and intimacy. Here’s how you can add sex toys into your holiday routine.
Check if you’re both on the naughty or nice list
What do we mean by this? I mean before anything, you two need to see if you’re on the same page. Because bringing a butt plug into the mix when your partner is only into light anal play is not the Christmas surprise they were thinking of.
Talk with your partner and see how they feel about trying out sex toys, and which toys they’d be open to trying out. Maybe you’ll want to start with a small clit vibrator or take it up a notch with a blowjob male masturbator. If for both of you to decide.
Get into the spirit with holiday-themed sex toys
You can get a sex toy and leave it at that, or you can go one step further and add a little ho-ho-ho to the night by sticking to the holiday theme. Some people go all out, but adding a bit of Christmas spirit can go a long way.
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A little sex stocking stuffer: Who wants to pull a pair of socks out of their Christmas stocking? Yeah, it’s not a sexy stocking stuffer. But get into the naughty holiday mood by adding sexy little gifts like the Lumen butt plug or delay spray for enhanced performance. They’re easy to stuff into a stocking and give off the right hint.
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Get the perfect vibrator: First, you need a sex toy before you can take this holiday season to the next level. The Pearl3 vibrator will have your legs trembling (you may even want a couple more days off, just sayin’). Designed for deep pleasure with touch sensitivity and a long-lasting battery, you and your partner can spend hours reaching orgasm after orgasm. A great release after a hectic Christmas dinner with the family.
- Festive lingerie and costumes: Have you ever wanted to bang Mr. Claus? Well, now’s your chance. Why not go all out and have fun by dressing up in holiday-themed costumes? You could be one of the Mr. or Mrs. Claus, a mischievous little reindeer, or a sexy little elf. If costumes aren’t your thing, then go for some red lace lingerie to add some sensuality to your holiday nights.
Massage, anyone?
You already know the holidays can be stressful, and all the stress usually goes right to your neck and back. But you don’t need to go to a massage therapist, just use your vibrator.
A G-spot vibrator is a great option when wanting to get some knots out of your or your partner’s neck and back.
Their gentle vibrations will give a soothing massage while creating an intimate and sensual experience for the two of you. You can also increase the intensity, allowing the pleasure to slowly build, turning into an erotic massage (and those come with happy endings).
Get off no matter the distance
So many long-distance couples are stuck when it comes to intimacy. Sure they both have their own toys, but they’re not in sync with one another. And when the holidays roll around, this need for intimacy only increases.
Who wouldn’t want to be with their partner during Christmas? We get it.
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, then intimacy is always a problem you’re trying to solve. But, there’s already a solution out there.
Using a couple’s toy set can bridge the gap and create more intimacy between you two, especially during the holidays. You and your partner get to choose the toys, so that they perfectly fit your sexual preferences.
And then, you get to enjoy syncing your toy with your partner’s toy or enjoying adult content for solo play.
Final thoughts
When it comes to the holiday season, it’s important to think of it as a time when you and your partner get to reconnect and rediscover each other. A great way of doing that is by incorporating sex toys into your sessions.
Whether it’s a relaxing massage or indulging in holiday-themed fantasies, make this holiday season one you won’t forget.
WRITTEN BY
Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.
