If you’re someone who hasn’t used a butt plug before, you may be wondering why women enjoy butt plugs. And I get it. Or maybe you have tried using a butt plug before but it wasn’t your thing.
Whatever has brought you to ask yourself, why do women like butt plugs?, just know that you’re going to get your answer.
Butt plugs have coined themselves as a risqué sex toy, but so many people, specifically women, swear by them (and for good reason).
So if you’re wondering, do women enjoy butt plugs? The answer is yes. Now, if you want to learn why, let’s not waste any more time and jump right into the mysterious world of women’s love for butt plugs.
The World of Plugs: Why do women like butt plugs?
Let’s cut to the chase. Women are sexual beings too, and they’re not going to use something that doesn’t make them feel good. They’re not going to use a butt plug just because they think it’s cute - they want something that makes them moan in delight.
But what do butt plugs do for women? Well, while the female genitals are the number one pleasure spot, the second spot is the anus. You see where I’m going with this, right?
See, the anus is a huge opportunity to reach maximum pleasure. But why? Well, because butt plugs stimulate deep nerve pathways. The pelvic nerve travels through the uterus, pelvic floor, and the anus and rectum.
By stimulating the pelvic nerve, it ignites this entire area and provides for a deeper orgasm. The more this area is stimulated, the higher chance you have of having really deep orgasms frequently.
Now, if you’re asking yourself, how do butt plugs feel for women? - well, have you ever had a really intense orgasm? One that had your legs shaking afterward? If you have, then you get the idea.
If you haven’t, then maybe it’s time you get yourself a butt plug and try it out. You don’t need a partner to use a butt plug, especially if you get one that’s app-controlled and interactive - just sayin’.
How to try them out for the first time
Did I convince you? Wow, that was fast! I mean, butt plugs basically sell themselves after you find out the pleasure they can give you.
If you’re wanting to dabble in the world of butt plugs and give them a try, it’s time to learn how to use one for the first time.
Here’s a step-by-step play of how to make your first experience an orgasmic one.
#1: Communicate with your partner
If you’re interested in using a butt plug with your partner, talk to them about it. No one wants to be surprised with a butt plug if they’ve never used one before.
There’s a chance your partner has had a negative experience with butt plugs and this means they may be more hesitant to use one.
Take your time, do your research together (like reading through these steps), and understand the things you can do to create a positive and pleasurable experience.
#2: Choose the right butt plug
There are a lot of toys online, but you want to choose one that uses medical-grade silicone and has a flared base (this is really important - you don’t want your butt plug to get stuck in your butt).
If you’re using it during solo-play, an interactive butt plug is easier to use and also lets you connect it to interactive content (or let your partner control it).
#3: Get some lube
You do not want to raw dog it with your butt plug. That’s not going to be fun. Make sure you use a lot of lube - don’t be cheap! Lather your butt plug up with a water-based lube so that it can be easily and painlessly inserted.
#4: Be relaxed
When you’re stressed, your anal sphincter contracts, tightening the anus. When this happens, it makes inserting your butt plug hard to do (usually things are going out, not coming in).
So, if you’re uncomfortable, take a break before trying it out. Breathe and massage your anus gently to help relax your body. And if you’re still not relaxed, stop - you don’t need to climb Everest in a day, try again later.
#5: Choose the right butt plug
If you’re trying out a butt plug for the first time (or not), you want a butt plug that provides you pleasure and an unforgettable experience. Look for a butt plug that is made of body-safe ribbed silicone, and interactive.
Why interactive? Because it provides you more variety during solo and partner play. For example, during solo play, you can connect your butt plug to adult content or your VR set.
For partner play, you can pair it with your partner’s toy for synchronized sensations or have your partner control it from their phone. Interactive butt plugs are the future, so why not take advantage of it?
#6: Make sure your butt plug is clean
After using your butt plug, clean it with a water-based toy cleaner. It’s really important to do this step because the anus holds bacteria that can cause serious infections in the vagina - and that’s the last thing you want.
How to get the most out of anal play
Anal play can be tons of fun when you’re doing it right. Let’s walk you through what you can do to get the most out of anal play.
You already know that being tense is a no-go when it comes to using a butt plug. Stress and butt plugs aren’t friends. So, firstly, you want to focus on relaxing the anus. You can do this by breathing to relax the body and gently massaging the anus.
Use a bit of lube on your finger and softly stroke or circle the anus. Then, slowly insert the tip of the finger into the anus. You can slowly insert the finger further into the anus. When you feel more relaxed, add another finger inside. Once you can add two fingers into the anus, you can move onto the butt plug.
Now, make sure you have the right butt plug (trust us on this one). If this is your first time, you want a butt plug that’s intuitive and can be controlled by you (or your partner) with ease. Interactive butt plugs like the Lumen, allows you to control it via the FeelConnect App.
So whether you’re using it during solo play and want to enjoy some adult content, or your partner is halfway around the world and you guys want to fool around, the Lumen has you covered.
It not only is fully controllable, but can sync vibrations with ambient sounds, pairs to other Kiiroo toys via Bluetooth, and comes with a variety of pulses for you to choose from.
So before anything, consider getting an interactive butt plug. Because it’s not just a butt plug, it’s an out-of-this-world experience that you create for yourself.
After lubing up your butt plug (and don’t forget this step!), insert the butt plug slowly into the anus.
You’ll need to play around with positioning to see which one feels the best for you. This may take some time if it’s your first time, so no pressure! Take it easy and you’ll find what works for you.
Final Thoughts
If you were asking yourself, are butt plugs pleasurable for women? - now you know the answer.
Hell yes! Butt plugs are the gateway into not only having a deeper orgasm but help women reach all the different ways their body can provide them pleasure. How cool is that? Maybe it’s time you tried one out for yourself.
WRITTEN BY
Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.
