Why you need to get a vibrator
Deciding whether or not to buy a sex toy can be an incredibly daunting experience. With society still placing a lot of stigma on vibrators, it can still feel nerve-wracking to buy one. But worry no more! Today we’re going to explore the flip side of the coin.
The truth is owning a vibrator is great and here are ten reasons as to why you should take the leap today.
1) They Feel Good
One of the inherent benefits of a pleasure device is that they provide just that: Pleasure. Vibrators are pretty much designed to make you feel amazing, no strings attached.
2) They Allow You to Explore New Sensations
Vibrations cannot be naturally replicated and provide very different sensations to other types of sex toy. Because of this, when you buy a vibrator you’re basically purchasing an entirely new experience for yourself. Each one is an adventure!
3) They Help You Know Your Own Body Better
When you get a new vibrator the invariable next step is self-exploration. Not only does buying your first vibrator provide you with multiple new experiences, but it also helps you learn how those experiences work for you.
This new knowledge is an empowering step to knowing your body better and feeling more confident in your sexual preferences.
4) They Encourage Self-Love
Vibrators don’t just prompt you to become familiar with your body, they also encourage you to love the skin that you’re in and to reward it with self-pleasure.
Using a vibrator (especially solo) is the ultimate act of self-love. According to the Women’s Health Network, “Because it’s done privately, masturbation is one easy way to feel beautiful and sexual on your own terms”.
Vibrators enable you to take some time for yourself solely for the purpose of pleasure. They also let you know that doing so is not only okay but actually necessary from time-to-time. If that isn’t reason enough to buy a vibrator then I don’t know what is.
5) They Help You Enjoy the Moment
Vibrators also help you learn how to live in the moment. Using a vibrator can encourage strong bodily and emotional responses which banish the worries of daily living and bring you back to the here and now. It’s kind of like meditation, but with an orgasm at the end.
6) They Encourage Self-Expression
One of the great things about vibrators is that they come in all different shapes and sizes. If you have a color or shape in mind, chances are there’s a vibrator out there to match your style. As such vibrators can help you satisfy your aesthetic as well as pleasure-based needs.
7) They Are Completely Safe To Use (If You Get the Right Material)
Chances are a vibrator isn’t going to get your pregnant or give you an STD. As long as you pay attention to the material your toy is made out of and practice good cleaning habits, then a vibrator can be a great way to practice safer sex. Jelly toys or anything with phthalates in them is a big no-no. For hygiene, silicone is the best way to go.
8) They’re Brilliant for Stress Relief
Vibrators were originally created to treat female ‘hysteria’ (basically arousal) and, while the sexist hokum of those vibrators is rightly a thing of the past, vibrators can still be used to alleviate tension. Orgasms release oxytocin, which, according to studies, can relieve stress and lower your blood pressure. Think of a vibrator as an investment in your own health and wellbeing.
9) They’re a Fantastic Tool for Couples
Vibrators aren’t just made for solo play and can be a perfect tool for communication in the bedroom. According to Ian Kerner, Ph.D. “There’s a strong correlation between willingness to explore your own body and bring yourself to orgasm and being willing to explore with your partner and have orgasms together”.
Take your new found sexual knowledge and teach it to your partner. Let them use the vibrator on you. Direct them or give them free reign. Let them know what feels good. You’ll soon discover just how affirming a vibrator can be in the bedroom.
10) They’re Great for LDRs
Last, but not least, vibrators can also help bridge the gap between those in a LDR. Introducing a vibrator can help heighten any sexual experience that you’re sharing via webcam and products such as the Kiiroo Pearl can even translate your touch directly in real time. With so many things hindering intimacy in a LDR, vibrators can be a serious lifeline.
And that’s it for now! Obviously, there are a plethora of different reasons to buy a vibrator. Some will be very personal and others much more general. However, I hope these ten reasons are enough to kick-start your curiosity.
You are ready for a vibrator, but your partner is not yet?
BRINGING A VIBRATOR INTO THE BEDROOM
For some people, sex toys are a new, even intimidating, adventure. If you’ve never used one before, you might have some misconceptions about what they mean for you and your relationship. In order to bring adult toys into the bedroom, I really suggest you frame it as something else that you can do together. Vibrators aren’t just for solo sessions.
Some men are afraid of being “replaced” by a sex toy. Gents, you are so much more than a sex toy to your partner! Do not be afraid of not measuring up. Sure, your penis can’t vibrate, but a vibrator can’t plan a romantic date or go down on her like you can. A vibrator is just another tool that can help you please each other.
So how can you go about integrating sexy toys into your relationship? First thing’s always first: Communication! Communication is the cornerstone of any happy relationship. Don’t surprise your partner with a vibrator completely out of the blue. It’s possible that they’ll be nervous, and they may be put off by it. Instead, bring it up first.
If you’d like to use a vibrator on your partner, try something like this. “You know, I think it would be so sexy to use a toy with you. I already love making love to you, but I’ve been reading a little bit about vibrators, and it turns out there are some really cool things on the market. What do you think?”
Often, the smaller the vibrator, the less intimidating it is to partners. Vibrators designed to be used clitorally, like one of our 5 Best Clitoral Vibrators, are a great place to start. You can also read about couples toys here. Experiment with touching your partner different ways. Try using the vibrator on their nipples or on the insides their thighs. You don’t have to head straight south!
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, bringing in adult toys can be a wonderful way to ease the pain of sexual distance. They can really liven up a Skype or phone call, too! If you want to go all the way, check out KIIROO devices, which allow you to physically touch your partner over the internet.
Hopefully, this has been helpful and has shown that you have absolutely nothing to fear when it comes to bringing toys into your relationship. If you have any questions or suggestions, hit us up in the comments below!
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Written By:
Emmeline Peaches
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