Kinky Bedroom Ideas
There’s a lot of advice out there about how to take things to the next level in the bedroom. But, let’s face it, while a lot of this advice is useful it’s also rather vanilla. What about advice for those who really want to kick it up a notch? For those craving something a little more hardcore?
Well, fret not my wonderful little kinksters because in this article we’re going to explore some top bedroom tricks and kinky bedroom ideas that Cosmo won’t tell you about. Let’s get freaky together.
#1 Explore New Porn Genres Together
Although watching porn may seem like a dirty little secret for some the truth is that there are actually quite a few benefits of watching porn together. More than this porn is great for gaining inspiration or for introducing your partner to your personal kink.
If you’re both feeling a bit bold, then do a quick Google search on the most popular fetish genre in porn and watch some scenes that play with this fetish. You may just find that it unlocks a new sexual desire in you that you never knew you had.
Alternatively, if you’re feeling really bold, then why not use some interactive porn and a Kiiroo device to take things to a whole new level? Watch your partner feel the motions of the porn stars on the screen while you fulfill each other’s desires in person. Think of it as your own little sex tech threesome.
#2 Indulge in Some Heavy Metal
A cold, firm plug in your partner’s posterior. A curved shaft with a rounded top, pressing against their G-spot. A formidable, lip-biting 2.75 lb worth of 11-inch metal dildo that you warm to perfection before sliding it into them. There’s no denying it: Steel sex toys really are just an incredibly intense and extremely arousing piece of equipment.
If you’ve avoided using steel sex toys up until this point (or simply didn’t know about them until now) then I urge you to explore your options, because there’s a lot on offer and most of it can lead to some very passionate exchanged.
In addition to looking absolutely badass, steel also has a weightiness to it that conventional sex toys lack, which can definitely be felt in use. What’s more, it can be warmed or cooled for your pleasure, allowing you to explore the wonderful world of sensation play too.
If kink is your goal, then steel is one of the best sex toy materials on the market.
#3 Get to the Point
You may be thinking that I mean “Be direct” or “Let your partner know exactly what you want” and, yes, this is good advice, but I’m thinking more the actual point…of a row of needles.
Pinwheels are an inexpensive piece of kit that (in my humble opinion) everyone should have in their bedside drawer. They’re great for sensation play and work wonderfully when your partner is blindfolded.
Use a pinwheel to gently tantalize your partner, by running it delicately across their skin, or apply a bit more pressure for a sharper sensation. If you’re feeling really cruel then lay the pinwheel on its side and drag it over your partner’s body to create a cat-scratching sensation. The possibilities are as varied as your creativity. Pinwheels also look terrifying, which adds to their effectiveness.
Alternatively, if you want something that looks even more formidable then invest in some dragon claws or cat nails. Anything with a sharp edge is pretty much guaranteed to up the sexual tension in any scenario.
#4 Introduce a Shocking Development
Electrocuting each other doesn’t necessarily seem like the most sensible plan at first, but nowadays there are a lot of products on the market which allow partners to explore electrosex and electrostimulation in a safe and controlled manner.
Much as with pinwheels, electrostimulation creates an immediate rush in the body due to the risk factor. There’s just something inherently thrilling about exposing the body to a jolt of electricity. Of course, there’s no real danger in using E-toys, but that won’t stop your body from getting a buzz in more ways than one.
Purchase a reliable electrostimulation kit or neon wand and begin exploring each other’s bodies in a completely different way. Start with gentle shocks (which feel like a prickling tickle) before upping the intensity to create more of a sharp sting. With some kits you can even get a special attachment which turns your entire body into a conductor, translating your every touch into a jolting sensation.
If you’re feeling really kinky then you can also get electro-charged urethral sounding kits, paddles, nipple clamps and, yes, even pinwheels. Shocking, I know, but in the best way possible.
#5 Never Feel Restrained
If you take one piece of advice away from this article today, then let it be this: If your preference is for whips, chains, and a ball gag then never lets the tame tips of a mainstream magazine constrain you to a boring bedroom routine.
At the end of the day, you know what works best for you. Follow your heart. Dare to explore. And never feel like your sexual preferences are an invitation for stigma-based judgments.
From now on don’t let anyone hold you back…unless they’re doing so with an actual leash, because you want to be chained and bound, in which case you get your freak on and do so with pride. You rule!
WRITTEN BY
Dr. Emmeline Peaches
