Honestly, what’s a better time of the year to take your sex life to the next level, if not for Christmas? Whether you’re going on a sexy Christmas vacation or staying home, it’s the perfect time to explore this part of you. There’s just something about the holiday spirit that spices things up.
For most of the year, you fall into a routine and now with some time off for the holidays, you can use it to really let loose and relax. That said, it’s time we talked about how to explore new pleasures this Christmas and rediscover your sexuality.
Write down your desires
What do you desire? Do you even know? They say communication is key in a relationship, but don’t forget the relationship you have with yourself. On a piece of paper, start writing down what you enjoy and want to try. This will help create a deeper connection with yourself and open up the opportunity for exploration.
There may be some things on your list you’ll need a partner for, and that’s fine. But also make sure you write down desires you can explore during solo play. Be open and honest with yourself, that’s the first step.
Get yourself in the right mindset
If you’re working or going to school full-time, your mind is not focused on your sex self. Your mind is thinking about the tabs you have open on your computer or the exam you need to do. We get it - it’s life. But the Christmas holidays mean you get a break from everything, and this is when you need to focus on yourself.
To get into the right mindset for sexual exploration and discovery, you need to set the mood. Put on some sexy lingerie, light up some candles, and dim the lights down low. You want to get yourself in the mood. It’s only when you’re in the mood, you can truly become one with yourself.
Do a little pre-Christmas shopping (for toys, that is)
Tis the season to be horny, right? At least that’s how I think the saying goes. You’ve written down the things you want to try out, and are in the right mindset, so now it’s time to get the best sex toy for yourself.
Whether it’s for solo play or partner play, you want a sex toy that offers versatility. You have different desires, so having a toy that does it all is big. Kiiroo’s Endless Fantasies Bundle or The Ultimate Luxury Bundle, give you their most popular vibrators for you to try out. With extended battery life and touch plates, Kiiroo’s vibrators give you multiple ways to play, stimulating your clitoris, G-spot, or both (double the pleasure!).
Go virtual with your desire
You can stick to the old school corded wand, or you can take things up a notch and heighten your sexual experiences. Choosing toys with two-way stimulated activation (great for long-distance relationships), virtual reality, and adult content gives you more ways to enjoy and explore what pleases you.
Maybe you want a shared experience with your partner who’s at their parents for the holidays or want to watch some naughty adult content, exploring what turns you on. Luckily, all of Kiiroo’s toys offer these features, so you can truly discover what gets you turned on.
Connect with local communities
Maybe you’re interested in trying out BDSM for the first time but don’t know how to start. Or maybe you want to try being in an orgy. Why not? These are your sexual desires and you have the right to explore them.
Well, there are tons of communities that can help you connect with other people interested in the same sexual fantasies as you. And what’s a better time than Christmas? Everyone has time off, and they're at home, so it’s easier for you to meet up.
You can start off by asking communities on Reddit or even looking at other social media platforms and apps. Speaking with like-minded people can help you discover and explore fantasies. Just make sure you speak with people who do have experience and are vetted by the community.
Final Thoughts
There’s just something about the holidays that are magical. The Christmas music, the cozy food, and, if you’re lucky, snow. But there’s also another side of the holidays, a side that’s sexy and naughty. And that’s the side you want to tap into this holiday season.
You have the time, and now with Kiiroo you have the toys, so why not give yourself the ultimate gift for Christmas? Not many people say they got an orgasm from Santa, but you can. So, write down your desires, get yourself a toy, and explore the pleasures you want to experience.
WRITTEN BY
Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.
